Everyone has a different idea of what's considered romantic. Some think a dinner out with a great wine at an expensive restaurant is romantic. Others think a candlelit bubble bath and a rose petal strewn bed is romantic. Not me. After twenty three years of marriage I've had it all so the most romantic thing for me is what Glenn gave me for Valentine's Day this year.
Cold hard cash.
Now let me tell you why. I still have my box of Godiva truffles from Christmas that Glenn got me so he didn't want to get me chocolate. He did go up to Macy's to look around and see if there was anything else I might like to no avail. Flowers were a fleeting thought. So he really thought about what I would like and he figured out the best thing. He bought me a beautiful card telling me how much he loved me and how much I mean to him and he filled it with money so I could buy whatever my little yarny heart desired. I love that he knows me so well.
After a big kiss and hug to my thoughtful and generous husband, I made a bee line for the Blue Moon Fiber Arts website. I picked out two gorgeous yarns I've wanted for a while now. Here's Thraven:

It's described as "bluesy greens and greensy blues painted black. Victorian elegance and mystery envelopes her like a foggy evening along a distant shore."

Reds, from poppy to rust darkened with black. Midwife of change. She will walk with you up to that door and be your witness as you walk through it.
I've been looking for these in the destash group but have yet to see anyone willing to part with these gorgeous colorways. With Glenn's generous gift, and after him sternly telling me not to use the money on anyone but me, I decided to order one skein of each of these yarns.
When the person you love gives you something that makes you happy, in my opinion, that's romantic. And for me, cash to buy yarn will make my heart flutter every time.